Tuesday, September 8, 2009


I am sad to say that some one has once again posted something that was uncalled for on the blog. I have asked in the past that if you want to leave a comment, to please put your name so we know who to thank for the comments. If you have something negative to say about my brother or me, either keep it to yourself or put your name to it. There is no need in being negative on here. If you want to be negative, you are more than welcome to visit my facebook (http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#/jlstrader)and leave your comments there. At least way, more people will be able to see it and we will know who you are. I will continue to delete all comments like the one from the past and the one I deleted today. I will be changing it to where you have to register in order to leave a comment on here if this continues. I don't want to that, but it may come to that.

The comment had to my relationships. I share that on here to let others know that I am happy although I was done so wrong and lied to in the past. I might have moved with my life and found some one that I really like and enjoy spending time with, but there is no need in making the comments that were made. It has been 6 months since Tessa treated me the way she did and did the things that she did. I was not perfect, but I did not do what she did. I was not telling some one that I love them while I was still sharing a bed with my spouse. I did not move across the country the day my divorce was final to be with some one. I did not let some one buy me a new car and lie about it to cover my ass and theirs. I took my time and met several people. Each time, not happy with who or what they stood for. I took my time and was not looking for anything and then some one great fell into my lap. If you are jealous or unhappy with it, that is your problem and you need to move on and forget about it. Once I written out of some one's life, I am done and going to move on with my life. There is no need on dwelling on the past. It is one thing to miss it, and it is another letting it control you and dictate what you do. I am over what has happened to me and moved on with my life. I finally met some one I trust and I am not afraid that I will be hurt again. I never thought that would happen to me in the past, but it did and I tread lightly now as not to get hurt again like I was in the past. Life has a way of teaching you lessons the hard way and in ways that you never imagined.

So, if you have the nerve to leave a comment like that, try putting a name to it.

1 comment:

MOM said...

I am so sorry that John has to make a post as this one. To not give your name after bad mouthing someone is pretty low. Tessa never tells the truth in anything she says and she told me that but I just did not hear it good at first.
I wish John the best of luck and love with many blessing .
I love you John